I have come to the conclusion that I may be raising what society may deem, rude children.
Oftentimes I blogged about how we raise our children and there will always be that question with their nose turned up, ‘why?’.
Why do I not allow my children to apologize or say they are sorry.
Why do I allow my children not to speak back when spoken to.
Why don’t they say God bless you when someone sneezes.
Why don’t they say grace before eating.
These along with a multitude of other non conventional methods like,
Why don’t I help my children up when they fall or why each child has to ask for something even if someone (or everyone) else has it.
Some say I raise them rudely but I say self sufficiently. When you expect too much you get your feelings hurt.
-Rush
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I think sometimes some of these are just manners, are they not? It’s preparing them for society, as much as preparing society for them. So that we all can live cohesively, 😃
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Correct. But sometimes conforming out of your comfort zone to appease others, while successfully living cohesively, oftentimes leads to issues within yourself that can lead to anxiety and depression. No?
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I suppose if one has to raise children so that they can live successful lives in a society, that means they must learn a few of society’s rules of manners 😊
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Well. I would disagree. I’m pretty successful and don’t teach my children to do anything I don’t do. Perhaps if your read more than just this blog you would have a better understanding of how/why I teach my children the way I do and why it is more appreciated than going with the humdrum of everyone (aka society’s) else’s standards/mannerisms.
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God bless you, my friend
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I owe you an apology. I am not the General Leader of the Universe. The way you choose to raise your kids is totally up to you. Please forgive me
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Nothing to be forgiven. Sometimes siStars disagree. No love lost. 💖
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Thank you
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